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North London Rape Crisis launches Friends and Family Counselling Service

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North London Rape Crisis (NLRC) now offers free short-term Counselling for Family, Friends & Partners of female survivors of sexual violence. Many supporters struggle with distressing feelings of upset, shock, grief, feel overwhelmed or have intimacy issues. Counselling can support supporters work through their thoughts and feelings about what has happened to a person that they care about.

 

The new counselling service is available to supportive friends and family members (including supportive make partners) of a female survivor of any form of sexual violence. The supporter must live, work or study in one of our seven boroughs including Barnet, Camden, Enfield, Haringey, Islington, Kensington & Chelsea and Westminster.

 

Counselling is a talking therapy, based on regular weekly sessions with a counsellor in a safe and confidential place and provides a unique experience that focuses entirely upon the individual giving them the opportunity to explore their feelings.  We offer 6 sessions of short-term therapy, which take place on a Friday daytime in Islington and childcare and Interpreters are available on request.

 

Why have Friends & Family counselling?

  • To talk to someone who doesn’t know you personally and who is not going to judge.
  • You might feel disbelief when you first hear about the assault, you might feel surprised, shocked or numb.
  • You might feel anger for a number of reasons; towards yourself for not being able to protect the survivor; towards the perpetrator or towards the survivor.
  • You might feel guilt because you could not prevent the assault from happening or that the survivor did not feel comfortable to tell you about the assault right away.
  • You may feel anxious about responding the’ right’ way or worried about how this event will impact your relationship with the survivor.
  • People come to Counselling for all of the above reasons and many more. Whatever your reason it will be valued by the counselling service.

 

To find out more about the new Friends and Family Counselling Service contact:

North London Rape Crisis Helpline 0207 619 1369

10.00 – 14.00 Monday

10.00 – 13.00 Tuesday

13.00 – 17.00 Wednesday & Thursday

10.00 – 14.00 Friday

nlrc@solacewomensaid.org

 

 

Over 90% of service users feel safer and more confident

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In the 40th year of securing a safer future Solace is pleased to announce the most recent service user survey results, with 95% of service users who took part rating the service as good or excellent, helping them to feel more confident and safe.

 

Solace is committed to women and children having a central voice within the organisation in order to be able to provide continuously improving services. Each year Solace Women’s Aid conducts an annual service user survey across all its services. Over the period of four weeks, all service users are asked to complete a standardised questionnaire relevant to the service they are using at that time. Some key results from the survey include:

 

98% would recommend Solace to a friend or relative

‘Solace has been brilliant and been my life line.’ Solace Service User, Advocacy

99% said their key worker was easy to talk to

‘Solace understand the issues and believe the client. It’s very empowering because before I didn’t have a voice.’ Solace Service User, Advocacy

90% reported that Solace helped them feel safer

This year there was a significant increase (42%) in the number of responses so a huge thank you is extended to all those that made it possible and the service users that took the time to complete the survey.

‘The domestic violence workshop has been great, I am more alert now on signs of Domestic Violence’ Solace Service User, Advice

95% said Solace helped them feel more confident

‘I thank Solace for everything. I feel I am a changed person. I have started to feel positive about life. Thank you!’ Solace Service User, North London Rape Crisis

 

This year there was a significant increase (42%) in the number of responses so a huge thank you is extended to all those that made it possible and the service users that took the time to complete the survey. We are extremely pleased with such positive feedback from our Service Users who’s views are pivotal to the organisation and allow us to continually improve our services at Solace.

 

 

Celebrating 40 years of securing a safer future

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Solace Women’s Aid celebrates supporting 60,000 women and children in London over 40 years, with an urgent new appeal.

Solace Women’s Aid is celebrating its 40th year by launching an appeal to continue its life-changing work during a time of unprecedented demand for its services and cuts in public funding.

Since the beginning Solace Women’s Aid has grown considerably and has helped over 60,000 survivors of domestic and sexual abuse to rebuild their lives. They provide a holistic range of specialist services across London, including refuges, advice & advocacy, counselling, support groups and family & children’s projects.

Demand for their services continues to grow at an alarming rate. Mary Mason, CEO comments “As domestic and sexual violence is discussed more and more in the media we’ve seen a huge increase in the number of survivors who feel more confident in coming forward, disclosing their own experiences and seeking support. All this in a climate of significant funding cuts

Despite the challenges in the sector, more volunteers than ever are being trained on Solace Women’s Aid’s helplines and additional staff are being recruited to provide one-to-one counselling, group therapy and specialist legal advice. But there is a lot more they need to do to secure a safer future for women, hence the 40 year appeal.

The organisation is asking for a £40 donation from organisations, groups and individuals concerned or affected by domestic or sexual violence. This donation could, for example, provide two counselling sessions, three children’s play therapy sessions, one legal consultation or an hour of helpline advice.

The charity recognises that breaking free from domestic violence or escaping sexual abuse is only the start. This is why they not only provide practical advice and a safe space to live, but also help women and children recover emotionally and build a future free from abuse.

It doesn’t happen overnight and takes courage and determination but, with Solace’s help and the success of their new appeal, service users will continue to be able to develop the confidence and independence they need to rebuild their lives free from abuse.

One Solace service users sums it up “Your bruises go away and your bones mend. But it’s the despair, being hopeless. It’s a very dark place to be. Solace has given me hope.”

Visit www.solacewomensaid.org.uk/40years to make a real difference to the lives of women and children who have survived domestic and sexual violence. You can also spread the word by tweeting ‘Secure a safer future’ using @solacewomensaid and hashtag: #solace40

 

For further information please call Karen Ruskin on 020 7619 1350 or email: Karen Ruskin: k.ruskin@solacewomensaid.org / Alex Siepel: a.siepel@solacewomensaid.org

Find out more about our 40 year history

Download our 40 years of SWA press release

 

Our Magnificent London Marathon Runners!

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A huge thank you to Melissa and John who ran the Virgin London Marathon on

Sunday raising valuable funds for Solace  – every penny is needed to answer the

daily calls from women in London needing support to escape violence.  I hope you

are as proud of yourselves as we are! – it’s a monumental achievement and we are

eternally grateful for your support.  Thank you from all the women and children

we help.  You can still donate at  :

http://www.justgiving.com/Melissa-Friedberg

http://www.justgiving.com/John-Hitchin1

Help them smash through their targets – Help them to change lives in London.

 

 

 

 

 

Hunter and the Bear supported us – Now it’s Eric!

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Hunter and the Bear who gave their time and talents last year to our Rock Against Violence Gig in Islington will be supporting the one and only Eric Clapton this summer.. We’re glad you like them Eric – we agree with you that they’re amazing live – all the best HATB with your exciting career! We’re big fans………

Melissa’s ready for the big day! Let’s cheer her on…..

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She shares her initials with Mo Farrah – so we know she’ll make it in round the full 26 miles in great time.  Join us in wishing the incredible Melissa Friedberg luck and energy on Sunday for the Virgin London Marathon and to our other Solace runner, John Hitchin.  Thank you to both of you for your amazing efforts ….

Click below to help her reach her target and help us to save lives!

http://www.justgiving.com/Melissa-Friedberg

 

 

 

 

 

 

What are you doing for Women’s Day – March 8th ?

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International Women’s Day is celebrated on March 8th so spare a thought for the millions of women around the world who inspire us every day – mothers, sisters, friends, survivors, workers, bosses, artists, activists and inventors! Give a donation or become a regular donor by clicking below or donate to support our AMAZING MARATHON RUNNER MELISSA!  www.justgiving.com/Melissa-Friedberg

Enjoy the day and celebrate with us – Do something special for the women in your life!

Melissa’s Marathon – In training for the big event!

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Our heroine Melissa is training hard for the London Marathon on April 13th – Click read more below and donate to help her reach her £3,000 target and help her through those gruelling 26 miles!  We’re with you in spirit Melissa and eternally grateful for your fantastic fundraising efforts!  A marathon sized thank you to everyone who’s supporting her.

Please donate now at www.justgiving.com/Melissa-Friedberg

 

Donors boost Summer Scheme in Barnet

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After a local campaign £375 has been raised in Barnet from local businesses and their employees for the borough’s Summer Scheme. The Summer Scheme offers activities and trips over the summer holidays for mothers and children living in refuges, which are fun and valuable opportunities to relax and unwind. We could not run these schemes without donations so would like to say a big thank you to the donors!

 

Jeremy Leaf and Co for donating £100.

White Rose Motors for donating £50.

Smart Autos, Whetstone for donating £50.

West End Carpet Co Ltd for donating £50.

Comnet Associates Ltd for donating £100

And a lovely £25 personal donation from an anonymous employee!

 

Thank you all for your support!

Feeling inspired to #GiveSolace? Donate now online!

Sponsor Gwen’s Marathon Run

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Gwen William’s, Chair of our Board of Trustees, is running the London Marathon for Solace.

On Sunday 21st April, Gwen will be running the 26.2 miles London Marathon for Solace Women’s Aid!

Gwen and her border collie shep

Gwen with her faithful trainer Shep

 

Donations can be made through Just Giving: http://www.justgiving.com/Gwen-williams1

 

Gwen has set an ambitious target of £10,000 to help the women and children affected by domestic and sexual abuse. In 2010 Gwen raised £8,000 and we are confident that with your support she will surpass her own expectations.

 

If you can, please circulate this to your friends and colleagues and help us spread a virtual cheer!

 

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